Thursday, April 24, 2014

5 THINGS TO DO BEING AN EXPAT



      Sometimes life offers us the golden opportunities to step out of our own country and settled in a whole new environment. But, is it really a New Environment? The new place you would be travelling is always inside the same world known as the Planet Earth and all places shared the same air, the same light and the same land, until and unless you are on a mission to the space. The more you travel, the more you will recognise that all people are almost the same. So, how can it be extremely so new, that some people find it very difficult to adapt in a new place. And they envy other people who find themselves so adaptable and enjoyable wherever they travel.
             
          I know many of you may agree or disagree with my view on adaptation, but the truth is that the person who disagree are those who are already enjoying their expatriate life and the person who agrees that adaptation in a new place is quite a boring idea, are probably not enjoying their expatriate life.Well, for both the cases, I have some points to share with you, which you may give a try to have a more meaningful and enjoyable expatriate life.

1. Extend your friendship circle, especially with the locals:


   

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

THE PHASE SHIFTER


THE CALL FROM WITHIN


           How many of you have come across this phase of life? I believe that everybody who have curiosity and wants more out of life can have this phase early or late depending on the amount of actions he takes. Well, what actually is this wakeup call? At certain level of time, life offers and shows many mysterious things which urge us to question why things happens the way it happens always. That is the time you should pay attention to what your inner self is guiding you to follow. If you succeed in doing so, you will be guided to the right path of life.

                                 
                      




Asking questions is a powerful way to gain new insights and perspectives that will change your life. There is a place within each of us that is totally connected to the infinite wisdom of the Universe. In this place lies all the answers to all the questions you would ever ask. This comprised of 5 questions I myself have ask and I hope many amongst you will find it familiar to realize the potential within you and start living a life you love.

1.  Who am I?

          Answering this question will help you identify your core values so that you can begin to live them visibly every day. People love to label themselves after the word “I AM” like I AM a professor/Doctor/Engineer etc etc. However beyond this, there is something which doesn’t need any labels. And in any case you remember who you are, you remember that you are powerful and NOTHING can stop you. You began to realize that you are totally untouched by birth or death, you are a limitless being, expecting from an unlimited source in an unlimited way. Living your values will help you be the person you want to be and accomplish your goals and dreams.

          "Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment" - Lao Tzu

2.  What is the meaning of life?

   
Many people opt for a mindless mere existence like getting a job, getting married, having family, saving for that wildest dream to manifest and getting retired. Living a very ordinary kind of life, just doing what everyone else does, thinking & acting only and when it’s required, just to survive. It all may be indeed a part of our purpose; however there is something deeper, something really concerned with contributing your share to the world. I believe that each one of you has a definite reason for being here and gifted with a unique gift to perform that share on this planet. It’s important to realize that each of us is free to choose that direction of our life and your job is to figure out that.

       "The world is the great gymnasium where we come to make ourselves strong." - Swami Vivekananda

3.  Why are we here?


     We are here because we exist & so as the humanity. Why not a few act for the sake of humanity? True brotherhood, harmony, peace and globalization in its highest form and an urge to serve this world in any possible way available is what should come out when you connect being here. Many people live a life that others have planned for them. In doing so, they set aside their own dreams and desires. However, a conscience call from within will always give you an indication when you are in the wrong path, majority tend to ignore this call. If you feel that something is wrong, definitely something is really not right; learn to trust your inner self. Yes, it can take courage to live on your own terms, but your happiness depends on it.

   “I’m sure you have a theme: 
the theme of your life. You can embellish it or desecrate it, but it's your theme, and as long as you follow it, you will experience harmony and peace of mind."- Agatha Christie
   
4.      What are my priorities?

     Having a positive attitude and to take proper care of our body. After all, the body is the only place we have to live through life long. It has ways of communicating with us and letting us know when things aren’t going so well. The problem is we frequently don’t listen to our bodies. In fact, it is often only when something really terrible happens that we pay attention. Start to listen to what your body is telling you, and then change your lifestyle as needed.
No matter how tough a problem seems to be, you can always find its easiest solution when you have a positive attitude. Whenever you feel trap, trust that out of this, only good is there & everything will be easily resolve. The more your negative thoughts and patterns are overcome, the more you will find doors that open to only good experiences. Positivity overrules all kind of issues; be positive!!!!

     "Health is like moneywe never have a true idea of its value until we lose it." 
– Josh Billings


5.   Who can help me?

     Whatever it is you want to change in your life, someone has almost certainly done it before. Look for such people and learn from them by reading their books, subscribing to their blogs, listening to them talk or even take their coaches. Follow the foot-steps of such people who you want to become; however avoid duplicity, because the original is always worth it. In fact, become someone of your own originality “the most unique” and “the most different one”. Be that “unique role model” for other people to follow and do inspire a lot along the way. Alternatively, you may just need some support – don’t be afraid to reach out to close friends and ask for assistance.

             “We all find our own space, our own path and our own true self. See you somewhere down the line, when we are a little older, a little wiser and a little happier.”-Unknown
                                         Wish you all the good luck!!!!








Tuesday, February 25, 2014

In love with the city



 Like billions of people around, when I was relocating in the new city, I had packed few hidden dreams inside me along with my stuffs. And one of the wildest amongst them is to become a writer. Although in this rapid world, it was not a difficult task for me to start. But, procrastination and excuses became its biggest enemy. However, unexpectedly, one fine day, I just picked up an one side printed A4 sheet and there it goes.The first thing which came into my mind was my irresistible love towards the city I lived. A very unique city in the valley. What is to be written about this city which no-one else had written..?